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Trauma Impact: What You Can Do Today to Heal Your Relationships

Trauma Impact: What You Can Do Today to Heal Your Relationships

Relationships are an essential part of our lives. but they are not always easy. Conflict, tension, and even trauma can cause our relationships to suffer, leaving us feeling unfulfilled and disconnected from our partners, which affects our mental health. Fortunately, harnessing the power of your relationships will not only improve your outlook on life but your overall sense of wellbeing.

How Black Men Can Stress Less and Live Longer

How Black Men Can Stress Less and Live Longer

Black maleness in the US is often connected to stereotypes and assumptions, and cultural norms can compound why some men may avoid addressing the stressors that impact their mental, emotional and relational health.

Time to Talk: How the Black Community Can Embrace Mental Health Conversations

Time to Talk: How the Black Community Can Embrace Mental Health Conversations

Based on the dangers and circumstances Black people faced, it’s understandable why acknowledging and validating feelings, seemed like a luxury we couldn’t afford. Fortunately, much of that is changing as many throughout the diaspora are looking for ways to heal generational trauma and are finding ways to create safe spaces to heal themselves and their relationships.

This Is What's Missing in Your Dating Equation

This Is What's Missing in Your Dating Equation

For most people, the old ways of meeting a person, dating, and falling in love are no longer adding up to living happily ever after.  More people are turning to dating apps like Tinder and Hinge to see if they can find their perfect match. According to a 2022 Pew Research, approximately 300 millions people use online dating platforms.

Five Ways to Make Your Mental Health a Priority

Five Ways to Make Your Mental Health a Priority

When we prioritize our mental health, we can enjoy a clearer mind, a better sense of self, improved productivity and an increased capacity to manage unexpected change. The best part: Making adjustments to your daily life doesn't have to be difficult. Mental health experts weigh in to share practical ways to make your mental health your priority…

No Mother Ever Wanted A Legacy of Trauma

No Mother Ever Wanted A Legacy of Trauma

Mothers birth more than children. They birth a new possibility for a community. Mothers carry the legacy of history and culture and often dedicate more time to maintaining a household and rearing children than they do caring for themselves. Mothers are the first teachers of children.

Understanding the Power of Your Relationships Can Change Your Life

Understanding the Power of Your Relationships Can Change Your Life

Leveraging the power of your relationships can make a big impact in your health and feeling of well being.  A study done by The National Library of Medicine showed that those who have healthy close relationships not only have less stress but also live longer. Research continues to demonstrate that relationships impact our overall feeling of happiness as well as our mental health.

Knowing Your Attachment Style Will Not Save Your Relationship

Knowing Your Attachment Style Will Not Save Your Relationship

Maya Angelou said, “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” But sometimes it's a struggle to stay hopeful in a relationship when you don’t always feel the love and doubt the strength of the bond.

How to Show Up for Your Children Without Losing Yourself

How to Show Up for Your Children Without Losing Yourself

It’s hard to overstate how important it is to protect our children and help them navigate life’s challenges. Some children are dealing with trauma or facing difficult circumstances far outside their control. They need their parents, but they also need a community of adults they can turn to when they need them.

The Grief Toll of Breast Cancer Hits Different During a Pandemic

The Grief Toll of Breast Cancer Hits Different During a Pandemic

You either know someone who has fought breast cancer or you know someone who fought beside someone with it.  And, if you have lost a loved one to breast cancer, you know all too well the grief that follows. There is sadness, but there is also anger.

The Emotional Tax of Racial Trauma

The Emotional Tax of Racial Trauma

While the whole world manages health concerns related to the pandemic, African Americans and Asian Americans have the extra burden of trauma due to racialized violence. After the March 19th shooting in an Atlanta spa and six Asian women dead, people were again reminded of the evil that was always present.

A Year Round Celebration of Black Love: Relational Health Matters

A Year Round Celebration of Black Love: Relational Health Matters

As I sit in front of my computer to write Ibisanmi Relational Health’s first blog in the month that we celebrate Black History and Black Love, I can’t help but think about the trials and tribulations our ancestors and elders endured in a world that saw them less than human and unworthy of love and strong familial relationships.