We’ve all been there: either there’s that one family member who we dread seeing, even if it’s only once a year, or that one story that continues to be retold that triggers frustration, anxiety or anger. Sometimes spending the holidays with the family can feel like being dragged into a play you didn’t ask to be in.
Caring for the Caregiver: Mental Health Tips for the Ones Who Hold Everyone Together
Suicide Prevention in Black Communities: Why Culturally Affirming Support Matters
Too many in our community are carrying untold stories of pain, trauma, and despair, and too often, they’re suffering in silence without access to the mental health support that could save their lives. The time has come to have honest conversations about mental health as a critical suicide prevention strategy that acknowledges both our cultural strengths and the systemic challenges to create pathways to healing that feel authentic and accessible to our community
How to Embrace our Communities with Pride All Year Long
Are You Creating Boundaries or Building Walls?
The Non-Linear Journey of Healing: Why Therapy Progress Isn't Always a Straight Line
Healing in the Face of Adversity: Celebrating the Resilience and Advocating for Black Women’s Mental Health
In the face of intersecting oppressions, Black women are often carrying not only their own burdens but those of their families and communities as well. As Audre Lorde reminds us, self care for Black women isn't merely a luxury—it's "an act of political warfare" in a world that has historically demanded their sacrifice and service to others.
Understanding the Connection Between Love and Mental Health
Ending the Year with the Word and Action of Gratitude
The truth is, many of us have faced difficult moments this year. Whether it’s been personal loss, professional setbacks, or unexpected life challenges, it’s easy to feel disillusioned or overwhelmed. But as Chadwick Boseman wisely said, “The struggles along the way are only meant to shape you for your purpose.”
How to Cope with Loneliness During the Holiday Season: Strategies for Self-Care
Election Results and Emotional Impact: Coping with Disappointment and Finding Resilience
The recent election results have left many grappling with a range of difficult emotions. According to a recent survey by the American Psychological Association, more than 75% of adults reported that the future of the country is a major stressor for them. I certainly witnessed the evidence of increased stress this week after the recent election results. Many who sought our services at Ibisanmi expressed a range of emotions–from numbness, anxiety, and fear to outrage.
Embracing Mental Health Day: A Culturally Affirming Perspective
The Importance of Collective and Communal Care for LGBTQIA Community
Why Couples Need a Create a Marriage Plan Before the Wedding
Couples often save for years for their ideal wedding. For some people it’s the day they have dreamed about since childhood so they want to make it one of the best days of their lives. Not only do couples spend on average 6-18 months planning their “big day,” but they also spend a lot of money. In 2023 the average wedding in the US cost about $35,000.








