Healing the Holiday Trigger: How to Cope When Family Isn’t a Safe Space

Healing the Holiday Trigger: How to Cope When Family Isn’t a Safe Space

We’ve all been there: either there’s that one family member who we dread seeing, even if it’s only once a year, or that one story that continues to be retold that triggers frustration, anxiety or anger. Sometimes spending the holidays with the family can feel like being dragged into a play you didn’t ask to be in.

Caring for the Caregiver: Mental Health Tips for the Ones Who Hold Everyone Together

Caring for the Caregiver: Mental Health Tips for the Ones Who Hold Everyone Together

Caregiving is an act of profound love, but it also comes with an incredible amount of responsibility, which can lead to overwhelming stress.

Caring for yourself isn’t optional when you’re a caregiver; it’s medically necessary.

Suicide Prevention in Black Communities: Why Culturally Affirming Support Matters

Suicide Prevention in Black Communities: Why Culturally Affirming Support Matters

Too many in our community are carrying untold stories of pain, trauma, and despair, and too often, they’re suffering in silence without access to the mental health support that could save their lives. The time has come to have honest conversations about mental health as a critical suicide prevention strategy that acknowledges both our cultural strengths and the systemic challenges to create pathways to healing that feel authentic and accessible to our community

How to Embrace our Communities with Pride All Year Long

How to Embrace our Communities with Pride All Year Long

True solidarity with the LGBTQIA+ community extends far beyond rainbow flags and Pride Month celebrations. It requires ongoing commitment to advocacy, education, and the creation of genuinely inclusive spaces where all individuals can thrive authentically

Are You Creating Boundaries or Building Walls?

Are You Creating Boundaries or Building Walls?

If you struggle with setting healthy boundaries and want to create an adaptive framework for your relationships, it may take practice and patience to strike the right balance, especially if you have never seen this modeled in your own home

Healing in the Face of Adversity: Celebrating the Resilience and Advocating for Black Women’s Mental Health

Healing in the Face of Adversity: Celebrating the Resilience and Advocating for Black Women’s Mental Health

In the face of intersecting oppressions, Black women are often carrying not only their own burdens but those of their families and communities as well. As Audre Lorde reminds us, self care for Black women isn't merely a luxury—it's "an act of political warfare" in a world that has historically demanded their sacrifice and service to others.

Ending the Year with the Word and Action of Gratitude

Ending the Year with the Word and Action of Gratitude

The truth is, many of us have faced difficult moments this year. Whether it’s been personal loss, professional setbacks, or unexpected life challenges, it’s easy to feel disillusioned or overwhelmed. But as Chadwick Boseman wisely said, “The struggles along the way are only meant to shape you for your purpose.”

How to Cope with Loneliness During the Holiday Season: Strategies for Self-Care

How to Cope with Loneliness During the Holiday Season: Strategies for Self-Care

Maybe you don’t want to admit to other people the reason why you are not feeling the holiday spirit. Maybe you are one of the many who are grieving this season. Even though this time of year is promoted as a time of joy, togetherness, and celebration, this is not the reality for everyone.

Election Results and Emotional Impact: Coping with Disappointment and Finding Resilience

Election Results and Emotional Impact: Coping with Disappointment and Finding Resilience

The recent election results have left many grappling with a range of difficult emotions. According to a recent survey by the American Psychological Association, more than 75% of adults reported that the future of the country is a major stressor for them. I certainly witnessed the evidence of increased stress this week after the recent election results. Many who sought our services at Ibisanmi expressed a range of emotions–from numbness, anxiety, and fear to outrage.

Embracing Mental Health Day: A Culturally Affirming Perspective

Embracing Mental Health Day: A Culturally Affirming Perspective

Thursday, Oct. 10th was World Mental Health Day. This year’s theme is “Mental Health at Work.” If you live and work in cities like New York or New Jersey, you understand how commuting alone, can be a daily source of stress.

The Importance of Collective and Communal Care for LGBTQIA Community

The Importance of Collective and Communal Care for LGBTQIA Community

In today's society, it’s crucial to recognize the unique challenges faced by LGBTQIA individuals and the importance of providing them with collective and communal care. They often face feelings of isolation and are at a greater risk of violence and suicide, especially among youth.

Why Couples Need a Create a Marriage Plan Before the Wedding

Why Couples Need a Create a Marriage Plan Before the Wedding

Couples often save for years for their ideal wedding. For some people it’s the day they have dreamed about since childhood so they want to make it one of the best days of their lives. Not only do couples spend on average 6-18 months planning their “big day,” but they also spend a lot of money. In 2023 the average wedding in the US cost about $35,000.

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