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When to take your child to a therapist: Knowing the signs can help turn things around

When to take your child to a therapist: Knowing the signs can help turn things around

Regardless how fine your child may look, it may not reflect what is going on inside. We've all seen small children fall and quickly get back up again like nothing ever happened. We smile at their resilience and expect them to get back up again the next time they fall.

How to Show Up for Your Children Without Losing Yourself

How to Show Up for Your Children Without Losing Yourself

It’s hard to overstate how important it is to protect our children and help them navigate life’s challenges. Some children are dealing with trauma or facing difficult circumstances far outside their control. They need their parents, but they also need a community of adults they can turn to when they need them.

Try Meditation and Reap the Benefits

Try Meditation and Reap the Benefits

When we think of meditation, we often envision someone sitting with their legs crossed on the floor with their hands together and eyes closed. And, yes this is one way we can approach meditation, but it is not the only way. For many, meditation is a spiritual practice that has been a part of their religious culture for thousands of years.

The Grief We Don’t Acknowledge is Still Real

The Grief We Don’t Acknowledge is Still Real

We are in year two of the pandemic. Many people are moving on with or without masks. Some are attending or hosting in-person events and braving large crowds without concern. What were once empty streets are now bustling with activity.

The Grief Toll of Breast Cancer Hits Different During a Pandemic

The Grief Toll of Breast Cancer Hits Different During a Pandemic

You either know someone who has fought breast cancer or you know someone who fought beside someone with it.  And, if you have lost a loved one to breast cancer, you know all too well the grief that follows. There is sadness, but there is also anger.

Pride Month is not only a time for rainbows but for checking in on our community

Pride Month is not only a time for rainbows but for checking in on our community

June is the time for celebrating summer, Juneteenth, Men’s Health, and Pride Month. Facebook is using the rainbow background for profile pictures and for posts.  Human rights organizations are hosting virtual dance parties, and people in cars across the country will wave their rainbow flags.

The Anniversary of of George Floyd’s Death Opens Old Wounds, But Together, We Can Heal

The Anniversary of of George Floyd’s Death Opens Old Wounds, But Together, We Can Heal

May 25th will mark the one year anniversary of the televised killing of George Floyd. The recording of his murder was watched millions of times, and millions of those people watching were Black. Since the murder, the Black community has had to fight for other Black lives that were unjustly taken.

The Emotional Tax of Racial Trauma

The Emotional Tax of Racial Trauma

While the whole world manages health concerns related to the pandemic, African Americans and Asian Americans have the extra burden of trauma due to racialized violence. After the March 19th shooting in an Atlanta spa and six Asian women dead, people were again reminded of the evil that was always present.

A Year Later: COVID-19 and What You Still Need

A Year Later: COVID-19 and What You Still Need

It has been a year since the whole world faced COVID-19, the virus that led to frenzy, quarantines, questions, and confusion. By now, many of us either know someone who has either gotten sick from the virus or died from it.

A Year Round Celebration of Black Love: Relational Health Matters

A Year Round Celebration of Black Love: Relational Health Matters

As I sit in front of my computer to write Ibisanmi Relational Health’s first blog in the month that we celebrate Black History and Black Love, I can’t help but think about the trials and tribulations our ancestors and elders endured in a world that saw them less than human and unworthy of love and strong familial relationships.